👩👦 For the grown-up
How school teaches it now
If a method looks unfamiliar — “that’s not how I learned it” — you’re not alone. Here’s how each skill is taught NOW, and a quick home move that matches the classroom (never contradicts it).
Reading a new word (decoding)
Drawn by Blendi
How school teaches it: Children stretch each sound and blend them together — /c/ /a/ /t/ → “cat”. Sounds first, then the whole word.
Try at home: Run your finger under the word and stretch the sounds together with your child — don’t rush to the whole word.
Not this: Not “guess the word from the picture” — that skips the decoding that makes a strong reader.
Adding & subtracting
Drawn by Bondi
How school teaches it: A number is shown breaking into parts — 7 = 5 + 2 — as a “number bond” diagram, BEFORE the + and − symbols.
Try at home: Split a small handful of raisins into two groups and say the bond: “7 is 5 and 2.”
Not this: Not “memorize the fact” first — the parts come before the symbols now.
Any new math idea
Drawn by Cara
How school teaches it: Concrete → Representational → Abstract: first REAL objects, then a DRAWING of them, then the NUMBERS. Each step before the next.
Try at home: Count real things, then draw them, then write the number — in that order.
Not this: Not “straight to the worksheet” — the objects and drawing come first.
Long-vowel words
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How school teaches it: A silent “magic e” at the end makes the vowel say its NAME — cap → cape, hop → hope.
Try at home: Cover the e and read it short (cap); uncover it and read it long (cape).
Not this: Not “sound out the e” — the e is silent; it changes the vowel.
Two letters, one sound
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How school teaches it: sh, ch, th, wh are DIGRAPHS — two letters that make ONE new sound, taught as a single unit.
Try at home: Go on a “sh hunt” around the house — ship, shell, brush.
Not this: Not “s… h…” as two separate sounds — it’s one sound: “sh”.
Numbers to 10 and beyond
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How school teaches it: A ten-frame (a 2×5 grid) shows how close a number is to ten — the foundation of place value.
Try at home: An egg carton with 2 cups cut off makes a ten-frame — fill it with buttons.
Not this: Not just rote counting — the frame shows the “make ten” structure.