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The fastest way to understand something is to teach it. MentorDojo trains you to tutor a younger child the way great teachers do — wait three seconds, give the smallest hint first, praise the strategy not the trait, name the mistake, and notice the feeling. Never hand over the answer.
Teaching a 4–9-year-old is real service — and the tutor learns as much as the child (Cohen, Kulik & Kulik). Log your volunteer hours here.
Just notice how you feel right now. There’s no right answer. (This is only for you; nothing is saved.)
The five moves, stories & a short break
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The five moves
Each move is one habit great tutors share.
⏳Wait — Wait time — after you ask, count three slow seconds of silence before you help.
🪜Smallest hint — Smallest hint first — give the least help that could unstick them, then wait again.
👏Praise the strategy — Praise the effort and the strategy, not “you’re so smart”.
🔍Name the mistake — Notice the confusion — name what the child actually did before you correct it.
🫶Notice the feeling — If they’re frustrated or upset, name it and steady it first — a breath, a stretch, a smaller step.
The three-second wait comes from Mary Budd Rowe’s wait-time research: when teachers waited about three seconds after a question, children gave longer and more thoughtful answers.
Tutoring with a grown-up nearby? The Question Card on Spark & Whetstone, our site for grown-ups, puts the same waiting and asking on one printed card.
Stories: tutors at work
A case · you decide
Devon's first tutoring session
Devon, 17 — volunteering to tutor a 6-year-old, Mia, who is stuck sounding out words
The idea in play: a good tutor gives the SMALLEST help that unsticks the learner — never the answer — and waits.
Mia stares at the word "ship" and goes quiet. Devon knows the answer and it is right there. His whole instinct is to just say it and move on so she does not feel bad.
Devon remembers the dojo: silence feels like forever to a helper and like thinking time to a learner. Handing over the answer feels kind and teaches nothing.
Mia is not failing — she is working.
Mia goes quiet, looking at "ship". Devon wants to help. What does he do?
Wait time plus the smallest-hint-first ladder is the whole move: least help, then silence, then let them get it.
Mia finally reads a tough sentence after real effort. Devon celebrates by saying…
Praise the effort and the strategy, never the trait — that is what a learner can carry to the next hard thing.
Devon taught Mia to read "ship" by almost not helping at all. That is the paradox of tutoring — and teaching it is why he understands the fading-hint idea better than any lecture could have made him.
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