About DuetTots

What it is

DuetTots asks four quick questions about you and the same four about your child — sound, busy places, touch and movement, and pace. Then it names one way you match and one way you differ, with one thing to try when you play together.

Why it matters

When a grown-up and a child take in the world differently, play can get bumpy without anyone doing anything wrong. Seeing the difference turns it into something you can plan for.

What it is not

These are everyday preferences that shift with tiredness, hunger and the day — not labels, scores, or a diagnosis, for you or your child.

Privacy

Everything happens on this device. There are no accounts, no ads, and no tracking. Nothing you choose or type is saved or sent anywhere — when you leave the page, it is gone, unless you printed your card.

A note for grown-ups

DuetTots is Developmental (FEDC-informed) — informed by the functional-emotional developmental-capacities tradition of thinking about individual differences and relationships. All the words here are our own; DuetTots is not affiliated with, or endorsed by, any organization or program in that tradition. It is a conversation starter, not an assessment, a diagnosis, or therapy.