For grown-ups
What your child practices
PauseForge teaches regulation-strategy literacy — the way researchers actually describe steadying a feeling. Psychologist James Gross grouped the strategies into families that act at different points of a feeling (change the situation, change your attention, change what it means, change your body/response) — plus the quiet option of waiting. Your child freezes a hot moment, predicts which move would steady it, watches a deterministic model play the consequence out on the feeling map, and meets the move’s cost and whether it fits the moment.
No move is “right”
PauseForge never scores a move as correct. Every strategy does something and costs something: distraction has a short reach; “holding it in” carries social and memory costs; changing what a thing means helps most when the situation is out of your hands and can backfire when your child could just act (Troy et al. 2013). The science is the trade-off, not a winning answer. In every scene, getting a grown-up is a real move, never a “loss”.
A map, not a mood tracker
The scenarios and their feelings are fixed story data, and the model’s result is the same every time — it is never fit to your child. Nothing your child feels is entered or saved; there is no diary, no history, and no “how do you feel today?” check-in. There is no microphone and no camera. Scenarios are everyday and never involve self-harm, abuse, or danger.
Honest about what it is
PauseForge builds literacy about the science of steadying feelings; it is not therapy and does not measure or diagnose anyone. If a feeling stays big or heavy for a while, the strongest move is a real one: talk with a trusted grown-up. The crisis resources below are always one tap away.
Our privacy promise
PauseForge Play is free, works offline, and collects nothing. No accounts, no ads, no tracking, no microphone, no camera; nothing your child feels ever leaves this device. Only which scenarios have been played is saved, only in this browser.